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Sunday, February 17, 2008

At first, he was nothing but a friendly face among a sea of strangers to her. Friends came easy to her but he was different. Part of her knew that behind that friendly smile was a heart aching for her affection but at the same time she wanted to ignore it. She didn't want him as anything more than a friend at the time. She was young, naive and always wanted more than he could offer so he got pushed to the side. But he stuck around, even when she didn't notice him, he was there. Some could say he even loved her but she pushed him away.

As time passed he grew weary. How long was he supposed to wait around? How long could he stand seeing her with guy after guy? His heart grew colder and colder but she didn't care. How could she? She was too selfish.

Time changes things. As he became distant, she started maturing. She soon came to realize that all this time she was looking for something that was right there all along. But as all stories go, it was too late. His heart was too cold. All the love she was willing to give just wasn't enough. She lost him to the cold of winter and he may never come back.


Tuesday, September 12, 2006

Vestil, Mariam M.

Period 5, Journalism

September 12, 2006

 

 

 

 

An Interview with Karisma Patel on being a Female

 

 

It’s 12:05 just a little after lunch on September 12, 2006. Karisma Patel (’07) sits in the chair opposite me in room 309 patiently waiting. Her eyes peeking out from under her glasses. As always, she is looking the epitome of comfy-cool and laid back in her denim jeans and cozy sweater. Her hair frames her face, loose and wavy with that skin color that defines her Indian roots, similar to my own. The clock reads 12:10 as I start asking my long awaited questions.

I’ve known Karisma for quite a while. We’ve shared enough gossip to create a telenovela but we’ve never actually talked or had a discussion about anything near intellectual. My first question was an inquiry as to whether or not her rights as a female have ever been violated. She replied that her rights were not extremely violated but that she’s been told that she wasn’t fully capable of taking part in a sport because she’s a girl. She continued by saying that “Women are still treated as objects.” Attending the same school as she does I was curious to know whether this kind of gender discrimination took place at school. “Particularly, in this school there is no gender discrimination that I know of.” Agreeing with this myself, I proceeded with the next questions. I looked at her trying to read her face as I asked the next question. “How do you feel about male supremacy?” Her usually calm face wrinkled up in emotion as she said or rather screamed: “DAMN WITH IT! I don’t think there’s a reason for it.” She calmed down after that, apologetic for her outburst and said that somehow that question made her “ a little..ok…a lot… just angry.” Feeling sympathetic to her outburst I proceeded to the next question wanting to know a little about her life at home and whether or not her outburst stemmed from there. “I have to clean the house, but I’m lucky in the fact that my brother has to clean too, but not as much and not as often. I get yelled at when I miss a spot whereas my brother doesn’t.” I smiled to myself knowing exactly how she felt because we share the same predicament except that my own brother doesn’t have ANY obligations to the household but to eat, sleep, and pester me.

Being that Karisma is Indian, like myself, I had a feeling that her home life was greatly influenced by her culture. She spoke of the women of her culture and said that “They are constantly in the shadow of their husbands and are expected to stick with you husband through everything, even abuse and neglect. Women are raised and trained from a young age to take care of their husbands at all costs whereas the males of my culture are trained to be the homemaker.” I nodded to myself knowing exactly what she was talking about as I, too, have a culture that is primarily patrilineal.

From the interview I came to the conclusion that Karisma Patel (’07) has a strong passion for equal rights. “My mom… she’s the epitome of a strong woman because my dad respects her and all she has to say.” I knew that passion had to come from somewhere. As the class neared it’s end I wrote down my final notes and thanked Karisma for her time. If you feel that you aren’t being treated fairly, “speak up for yourself, that’s the least you can do.” Even though women have come a long way since the 1800’s unless we are treated as complete equals to males in all instances we have not made any progress at all. “We’re all the same. There’s no reason for it [male supremacy].” Well said Karisma and after all, the justice league would not be the same without Wonder Woman.


Sunday, April 23, 2006

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                                                            Filipino History

 The early Filipino Malay ancestors brought with them their culture--food and drinks, community life, government and laws, language and literature, religion, customs and traditions and arts and sciences. They left their cultures to their descendants, as the Filipino Malayan inheritance.

In the course of the centuries, long before the Spaniards colonized the Philippines in the 16th century; the native Filipinos came in contact (by commerce) with Hindus from India, the Chinese and the Arabs whose civilizations were much older and more advanced than those of Spain and other Western countries. As a result of these early contacts with these great Asian people, the Filipino native culture and way of life (Malayan Heritage) were enriched.

The cultural influences of both India and Arabia came indirectly to Philippine shores through Malaysia, while the Chinese cultural influence came direct from China.

In subsequent years, the Filipinos intermarried, not only with the Indians, Chinese and Arabians, but also with the Spaniards, the Americans, the Japanese, the British, the French, the Germans, and other peoples of the world. Today, it may be said that the bloods of the East and the West meet and blend in Filipino veins.

It must be noted that during the first two and a half centuries (1565-1828) Spain ruled the country through Mexico. The viceroy of Mexico governed the country in the name of the Spanish king. During this period the famous Manila-Acapulco trade existed. And many Mexicans--colonial officials, missionaries, soldiers, and traders--came to the Philippines. They introduced plants and animals, industries, songs and dances, customs and traditions into the country. Moreover, many of them married Filipino women. So it came to pass that Filipino acquired a Mexican heritage.

After 333 years of Spanish rule, the Americans conquered the country and like Spain, America imposed her culture upon the people. During four decades of U.S. rule (1898-1935), the people acquired the American heritage which included democracy, popular education, the English language and Protestant Christianity.

Beneath the veneer of Hispanic, Mexican and American heritage, the people, in heart and in spirit, are Asians. they are Asian in race and in geography with an indestructible Asian heritage.

The warmth and natural hospitality of the nation's 66,000,000 Filipinos today, is known throughout the world. The 11 cultural, linguistic and racial groups endow the Filipino people with varying customs and traditions. In spite of their diversity, Filipinos have basically two dominant traits: a love of family and a strong religious faith.

Filipino People

 

 

The Philippines were greatly influenced by the centuries of rule by theSpanish.

 And  even  more influenced by the half century rule of the United States, but still are quite different than anyone in the region. Their Southeast Asian moorings have held through the occupations of the western imperialists and have produced a unique brand of people. The Filipinos are a mix of all sorts of races from primitive Austronesians to an Asian influence and a western influence. They are definitely unique.

 

 

Filipino Character

 

It may be said that the Filipinos are intelligent, with retentive memory, quick perception, and talents for art and science. They also are gentle, friend]y, and cheerful people, noted for their courtesy and hospitality.

 

 

 

                                                            Filipino Dance

 

Honored as the Philippine national dance, Tinikling, is a favorite in the Visayan Islands of Leyte. The dance imitates the movement of the Tinikling birds as they walk between grass stems, run over tree branches or dodge bamboo traps set by rice farmers. Dancers imitate the Tinikling birds legendary grace and speed by skillfully maneuvering between large bamboo poles.

 

                                                           

 

 

 

Filipino Endangered Species

 

More than 3,500 species of plants and animals will disappear. Many of them are only found in the Philippines, will disappear all ways. Some threatened animals are: Tarsiers, the large Philippine Eagle, the Philippine cockatoo, flying lemurs, flower peckers and the Philippine crocodile.

         

                                                        

 

 

 

 

 

                                                            Jose Rizal

 

 Jose Rizal the national hero of the Philippines, was born on  June 19,1861 in

the town of  Calabama,Laguna. He was one of the 11  children that  Franscisco  Mercado

Rizal  who was born in Binan,Laguna and  Teodora  Alonzo y  Quintos who was born in

Meisec Sta. Cruz, Manila gave birth to. At age 3,he learned his alphabet then by age5, he learned to read and write.He traveled around the world including: Europe, America and Asia. Jose Rizal was an author whose works had both nationalistic and revolutionary themes. He wrote about the arrogance of those that were in power in his home country and won the hatred from the Spanish but the love and respect from the Filipino people. Jose Rizal was a big player in the Philippine Revoluton which started on August 26, 1896. He was againt captured by his enemies and while in his jail cell he was able to write “ Ultimo Adios” which became a masterpiece. The novel expressed the hero’s great love of the country and also of the Filipino people. He was convicted of rebellion, sedition and forming illegal association. In December of 1896 Jose Rizal was executed in Bagumbayan Field.

    

                                                     Filipino   Items                       

  

          Like all the countries in the world, all have a national bird,tree,animal,dish,fruit,

        leaf,house,dance,hero,anthem,and sport.Here are some national  items of the

        Philippines:

                                                                                                                                

                         -national hero: Jose Rizal

 

                         -national fish: Milk fish

                   

                         -national dance: Tinikling

    

                         -national house: Tipa hut

 

                         -national animal: Carabao

 

                         -national bird: Philippine Eagle

 

                         -national tree: Narra

 

                         -national dish: Lechon

 

                         -national leaf: Anahaw

                        

                        -national flower: Sampagita


Thursday, March 02, 2006

I remember it was a warm day with a blue and white sky. The garden was still wet with last night’s rain and the black earth was steaming in the sun, while between my toes the ground was soft and squishy – I had taken off my shoes.The little tomato plants were laid flat against the ground from last night’s downfall and there were puddles like blue glass in the hollows. A breeze, soft with a damp, fishy smell, blew in from Lake Winnebago about three miles away. I was so busy thinking about the weather, the warm sun, and the sleek little onions that I didn’t even hear Jack come up the back sidewalk.

 

 

 

 

Daly, Maureen. Seventeenth Summer, New York: Mead and Company, 1942


Tuesday, January 31, 2006

oh baby ...

hey mama. this entry is for you. i know i already left u a comment but wanted to write to you anyways. il be right here waiting for your...... breakdown phone call... the cellular is under my pillow as we speak. i know youve been estressed lately.. but its ok.. its only for another 2 days and we have another 5 months or so until next finals.. raiiight? call me. remember...  cha chiiiiing. haha. love you mama.

 

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